By Iola Goulton
I'm a fiction reader. So are most of the authors I follow. So when one of my favourite authors (Kara Isaac) recommends a non-fiction book, I'm intrigued enough to check it out.
Lost and Found by Kendra Fletcher is about a mother who finds her way out of a legalistic church background to freedom in Christ without managing to kill any of her eight children (seriously. Three almost die. Her end point is great, but her journey isn’t one anyone would want to emulate).
Her writing is full of thought-provoking quotes which address some of our beliefs as Christians.Like any good writer, she highlights places where we tell but don’t show, or where what we do and how we live contradicts what we say we believe.
Here’s one example which hit home to me as a writer:
I suspect most writers can relate to this. It’s certainly something I see in a lot of the writer forums I frequent. It seems writers continually seek validation:
- Bloggers seek validation through website visits and comments.
- Social media experts seek validation through follower numbers.
- Unpublished writers seek validation in contest finals and wins.
- Contest winners seek validation through signing with an agent.
- Agented writers seek validation through signing their first contract with a high-profile trade publisher. Or a lower-profile small press.
- Published writers seek validation through sales and contests, seeking the validation of a bestseller ranking, or a contest final or a win, hoping success will bring the next book contract, and the next.
Yes, yes. I know this is wrong. And I'm not saying everyone does it. But it's a trap I see people falling into, and one I'm working not to fall into myself.
It's all to easy to forget we shouldn’t be looking for man to validate us. It's vanity. We should be looking to God, who has already validated us, who approves of us just as we are:
Kendra Fletcher points out that when we're seeking to please man, we can become vain. Self-righteous.
There is no objective standard, so the only way we can feel better is to compare ourselves to each other. Bad idea.
Publishing is driven by numbers, which gives us so many things to compare! Follower numbers, email subscribers, books published, reviews posted, copies sold, royalties earned (and these last two are the only two which aren’t public information, although Author Earnings are doing their best).
So we follow the latest marketing must-do in the effort to build our blog or our email list, to get more reviews, to sell more books. And what do we forget?
Because it’s easy to follow a checklist and check off all the boxes. It's much harder to listen to the gentle, faithful leading of the Holy Spirit.
Kendra Fletcher wasn’t talking about publishing and marketing when she wrote Lost and Found, but she might as well have been. When it comes to publishing and especially to marketing, we’re relying on that checklist to reach success. And hoping we’re using the ‘right’ checklist.
Yet that’s not what God wants from us. Sure, we have to put in the work—learn to write to the standards required by publishers and retailers, learn to tell stories that will touch our target readers, learn the best ways to find and engage those readers.
We have to seek His will for our writing and walk in obedience to that. I don't know about you, but His will for me is that I follow Him. That I write what He wants me to write. I publish when He's ready for me to publish. I don't rush things. I don't seek validation in a publishing contract from a vanity press.
Instead, I wait on Him.
Because in the end, my success (or otherwise) is up to God. As will yours. My job is to write and publish to His plan. Not mine. Then my blog posts and my books will be exactly as successful as God intends them to be. I know and believe that. So I have to let go of my definitions of success and focus on His.
Lord, please help me to remember this every day.
About Iola Goulton
Iola Goulton is a New Zealand book reviewer, freelance editor, and author, writing contemporary Christian romance with a Kiwi twist. She is a member of the Sisterhood of Unpronounceable Names (Iola is pronounced yo-la, not eye-ola and definitely not Lola).
Iola holds a degree in marketing, has a background in human resource consulting, and currently works as a freelance editor. When she’s not working, Iola is usually reading or writing her next book review. Iola lives in the beautiful Bay of Plenty in New Zealand (not far from Hobbiton) with her husband, two teenagers and one cat. She is currently working on her first novel.